I know that you might be thinking. It sounds kind of counter intuitive to think that it could ever really be easy to get a date with a woman. Especially if you have had many experiences in the past where you found it to be hard or nearly impossible. If that is what your primary experience of dating is like, then it would be kind of hard to think otherwise. It would be kind of hard to imagine that it could ever be easy. Still, you have to remember that your past experiences were based on your past knowledge.
And if you are like most men, you probably had to acquire that knowledge kind of haphazardly. You probably had to try to figure things out all on your own. The problem with that is, you can end up coming up with some false ideas of what you should do and you would never know it. Without having someone to tell you that you are off the mark, you really wouldn't have much to tell you that. Other than bad dating experiences, that is.
Even with a handful of bad dating experiences, you might not truly figure out what went wrong on your own. And you kind of have to have that figured out if you are going to make the necessary changes to get better results.
So, I am going to help you out based on what I know and have learned from my own trial and errors. That way, you can kind of skip the learning curve that I had to go through.
One of the first things that you should realize is that not all women are quite the same. I know there are plenty of guys who think this is true, but if you have ever had any female friends, then you should know that there are major differences from woman to woman in what they like and what they are attracted to. This means that you really can't expect to ever have a one size fits all solution to getting dates.
You have to be a little bit flexible and adaptable if you want to get good at attracting many different types of women. Any guy I know who is really good at attracting women has different approaches. So, he can adapt when he needs to. That is something that you really have to learn how to do, or else you will be forced to deal with one personality type all of the time and that might not be fun if that personality type isn't really your cup of tea.
Another thing that you are going to have to realize if you want to get good at getting dates with women is that you have to be able to make an approach. This really isn't something that you can avoid. If you happened to be a movie star with an entourage and they could go out and do the hooking up for you, then maybe you could still do well with females and not have to make approaches.
For us mere mortals, the approach is key. It's how you start things off and you have to be able to get something started before a woman is going to say yes to a date with you. You usually can't approach a woman cold and just ask for a date and expect to have her say yes.
Finally, if you want to make dating seem really easy, then you have to become good at figuring out where to meet women. A lot of this has to do with the personality type that you want to attract. If you want a club girl, then you have to go out to the clubs. If you want to find a homebody, then hitting up some online dating sites might be the way to go.
Yes, dating can be relatively easy. And it can be fun. As long as you know how to build attraction with a woman and make it a lot easier for yourself in getting a date, it will be a fun and enjoyable experience for you.
And if you are like most men, you probably had to acquire that knowledge kind of haphazardly. You probably had to try to figure things out all on your own. The problem with that is, you can end up coming up with some false ideas of what you should do and you would never know it. Without having someone to tell you that you are off the mark, you really wouldn't have much to tell you that. Other than bad dating experiences, that is.
Even with a handful of bad dating experiences, you might not truly figure out what went wrong on your own. And you kind of have to have that figured out if you are going to make the necessary changes to get better results.
So, I am going to help you out based on what I know and have learned from my own trial and errors. That way, you can kind of skip the learning curve that I had to go through.
One of the first things that you should realize is that not all women are quite the same. I know there are plenty of guys who think this is true, but if you have ever had any female friends, then you should know that there are major differences from woman to woman in what they like and what they are attracted to. This means that you really can't expect to ever have a one size fits all solution to getting dates.
You have to be a little bit flexible and adaptable if you want to get good at attracting many different types of women. Any guy I know who is really good at attracting women has different approaches. So, he can adapt when he needs to. That is something that you really have to learn how to do, or else you will be forced to deal with one personality type all of the time and that might not be fun if that personality type isn't really your cup of tea.
Another thing that you are going to have to realize if you want to get good at getting dates with women is that you have to be able to make an approach. This really isn't something that you can avoid. If you happened to be a movie star with an entourage and they could go out and do the hooking up for you, then maybe you could still do well with females and not have to make approaches.
For us mere mortals, the approach is key. It's how you start things off and you have to be able to get something started before a woman is going to say yes to a date with you. You usually can't approach a woman cold and just ask for a date and expect to have her say yes.
Finally, if you want to make dating seem really easy, then you have to become good at figuring out where to meet women. A lot of this has to do with the personality type that you want to attract. If you want a club girl, then you have to go out to the clubs. If you want to find a homebody, then hitting up some online dating sites might be the way to go.
Yes, dating can be relatively easy. And it can be fun. As long as you know how to build attraction with a woman and make it a lot easier for yourself in getting a date, it will be a fun and enjoyable experience for you.